“Yeah, I don’t know,” is a thing I say all the time, primarily when I am uncomfortable with my silent thoughts, so that I am that meme with the guy looking at a butterfly, asking, “Is this Tourette’s?”
This space isn’t back except that it is. And it is due to the fact that I clicked the wrong spot on my Feedly, utterly by accident, and was brought back to a blog I used to read in 2008. I have no idea where that person is now, or even why I read her then, how I found her, the whole rigmarole. Blogs are like albums for me now, in that I can no longer remember where I first heard them or why I became enthralled.
Anyway, here is what I wanted to tell you: I have two kids, and I gave birth to both vaginally, and there came a time in both birth processes that I yelled PULL IT OUT PULL IT OUT PULL IT OUT. I was a loud birther (a word that we in the US ought not say now, for its proto-fascist implications, and so I will say, I was a loud woman giving birth). They don’t tell you that babies have a lot in common with splinters, in that you KNOW, in the depths of your brain, that it will feel so much better the second someone just pulls the fucking thing OUT.
And right after you yell PULL IT OUT, someone in the room (a woman, for me, both times, because I only work with male doctors under emergency circumstances, though I’m fine with male nurses, because even if it’s 2020 that life path still takes the courage of one’s convictions, and I appreciate such things in a nurse)–anyway, yes, you yell PULL IT OUT, and a woman will say, “We can’t pull it out, you have to push.”
I tell you this story to say: it’s a pandemic, and we can’t pull it out. We have to push.